What if he gets bored after a few weeks and moves on does he like me it’s one thing to charm a guy for a couple of hours (or one night of fun), but keeping a guy interested for longer requires an understanding of what creates deep attraction so i want to share 5 golden techniques for keeping a guy hooked well beyond the first few dates: 1. After about 6 months and dating a ton of guys (having a full funnel was a blast), i’ve finally gotten serious with one he had the relationship talk with me of course he says i’m hard to read, and unlike any other girl he’s ever dated –which tells me i’m on the right track. They are all bullshit some guys will appreciate a text immediately after he leaves some will find a text within three days too clingy perhaps there is a happy medium, but i don’t advise trying to find it instead, i propose another strategy: don’t manipulate free him to behave however he likes you enjoyed sleeping with this guy great.
The post-date move that makes him want you even more forget the three-day calling rule according to new research, guys want you to text them after a date. But for now, we want to laser in on what to text a girl after your first date truth told, most of what you’re going to text after a first date is a little cookie cutter there’s not going to be a ton of variation, though you can certainly put your own individual spin on things. Text messages, as a general rule, are kind of the worst this is because they are, without fail, nearly impossible to gauge meanings from (like, the multiple meanings of the word “okay” and “cool” alone could fill an entire sub-heading on wikipedia.
The whole point of not hooking up with him the first night was so that he'd text you, and now the key is to be interesting so that he wants to keep texting you, not just because he's tryna get it in but because he enjoys you as a person. After that, the next week was very confusing he would sometimes completely ignore me but then go back to being his normal flirty self a few nights ago, we both went out and went home together again. Letting go of your insecurities after a hookup can be challenging, but here is a good place to start don’t linger, you’ve got shit to do you’ve got a lot of stuff to do today, it may just be laundry or some reading, but get to it. Advice on text game after hookup hey guys, first time poster here and pretty damn impressed with the massive archive of useful information you have stashed around here.
Hopefully hooking up with that person at that time was your decision and it feels cool/adult/powerful to be the boss of you plus, now you've pushed yourself to tap into your true feelings. I obviously like this guy enough that i'm still thinking about him months after hooking up and have hopes of seeing him again, so i need to know if these hopes are completely pointless, or if i should give one last effort in to making something happen with him. Old wisdom will tell you that it is important to call (modern day: text) the day after banging, even if it's just a line or two - you want to connect in some way to assure her she hasn't been pumped and dumped.
Who calls first after sex, the man or woman posted: 10/12/2012 11:36:07 pm: the guys busy working but if the sex was unforgettable it will be on his mind allday without a question but woman usually pick up the phone 1st and with a nice text saying (hope your days going well) that would be the icing on the cake for me i would definitely return. A lot of other dating advice writers like to talk about waiting x number of days or holding out to make him text/call you first the fact is – if you’re needy and obsessing over him and your relationship with him, i recently have been hanging out with a guy who has been trying to hook up with me i didn’t. With my current boyfriend of 2 years, i basically made the first move to hook up with him our first time getting drinks and he was extremely persistent after that it might be the kind of guys you're meeting up with that's causing a bit of an issue. Usually after the first interaction, it isnt best to contact the day or two after, but there is always a rate case of it working out that way i wouldn't be too worried about being too needy if you call her in a short period of time.
28 trying to kiss your hookup in public 29 inviting him or her to a wedding 30 giving your hookup all the power you’re having sex, too think about your needs first. Ok so i met a guy a few weeks ago i just got out of a long serious relationship, and just looking for someone fun to be with, long story short, he does not seem to be interested in anything too serious either (due to current obstacles also) anyways, we agreed to meet up for a casual hookup after.
Re: how long do you normally wait before contacting a girl after having sex with her assuming you want to see the girl again, i don't see what benefit is gained by waiting three days- you are just more likely to provoke buyers remorse i send a text just to say hello the next night, and we normally. When a guy sends you this kind of text, (especially the morning after a date or hook-up), it means that he’s thinking about you and wants you to think about him the rest of the day text back : “good morning. Should i text him first after a hookup - men looking for a woman - women looking for a woman how to get a good woman it is not easy for women to find a good man, and to be honest it is not easy for a man to find a good woman if you are a middle-aged man looking to have a good time dating woman half your age, this advertisement is for you. 13 “so, you met a guy he seems fantastic he says all the right words, does all the right things, and you decide to sleep with him a little more quickly than normal because you feel oh-so comfortable around him then guess what happens he stops calling you at first you feel rejected then you feel used.